Sibling relationships may be tough to navigate. Some days they may seem to be best friends, and the next day, they're bickering and fighting. Why do siblings fight? They may be struggle to share, or harbor feelings of jealousy towards a new sibling. If your family struggles with these things, please know it is completely normal and oftentimes developmentally appropriate. When it comes to understanding sibling dynamics, we wanted to get a therapist's insight! We interviewed a licensed professional counselor, who works with children at a nonprofit in San Antonio and performs social-emotional assessments.  Jump to:  Introducing a New Sibling Navigating Sibling Conflict Family Time   Introducing a New Sibling  Sometimes the introduction of the new sibling can be the initial influence of a sibling's emotions towards them. Consider what an older sibling may be feeling when there is a new child introduced to the family: displacement, jealousy, or increased responsibility. Your child(ren) may say they hate the baby, have tantrums, begin to act more "babyish", or express their new feelings in different ways.  You can do some things before the sibling(s) meet the baby to ease the transition.  Some ideas: Talk to your child(ren) about what the new life with the baby will look like.  Involve your child(ren) in preparing for the baby (setting up the nursery, meal prepping, etc.)  Allow child(ren) to interact with the baby in the womb (singing, feeling them kick, etc.)  Make a point to spend time together as the current family before the baby arrives.  Ask for extra help in the early weeks with the newborn so you can spend more time with your other child(ren).  For more ideas, view our video:  View this post on Instagram A post shared by Montessori Children’s Furniture (@sprout_kids)   However, no matter how well you prepare your child(ren) for the new baby, there may still be difficulties with the transition. This is normal. This transition is going to evoke a lot of feelings for a child who may not necessarily be able to process them the way an adult would. Adults also have difficulty adjusting our own emotions, so how do we expect children to do it? Be patient with them as they adjust to this new family dynamic.  If a child is feeling displaced, you can reassure them of their place in the family and your love for them and encourage them to talk to you if they are worried. Spend one-on-one time with them. You can also involve them in taking care of the baby, such as fetching diapers, spit-up rags, or bottles.  Navigating Sibling Conflict  Siblings fighting may be a fact of life. When they are young, this may come from difficulty sharing. Developmentally, it is normal for your child(ren) to struggle with sharing until age five or so. While they may not grasp the concept of sharing just yet, there are some ways you can navigate this.  To help siblings get along better and be fair here are some tips: Show them how: Parents can teach by example by acting kindly and sharing things with each other and their children. Talk it out: It's important for siblings to talk openly and listen to each other's feelings. Encourage them to express themselves honestly.   Encourage them to use "I feel" statements instead of accusations or blame Acknowledge both children's feelings, even if they differ. Say things like, "I can see you're upset," or "I can see why you would feel that way." Once they’ve shared their feelings, help them brainstorm solutions together. Ask, "What can we do to make this better?" so they take ownership of resolving conflicts. 'Gentling the violence' technique by Magda Gerber  View this post on Instagram A post shared by Montessori Children’s Furniture (@sprout_kids) Ensure boundaries are known: Instead of imposing rules, involve the children in the process of creating guidelines for behavior. Have a discussion about fairness and taking turns, asking open-ended questions like, "What do you think is fair when playing together?" This empowers them to take ownership of their actions. Teach empathy: Children need to understand how their actions affect their siblings. Empathy is a learned skill - none of us are born with it! Solve problems together: Avoid taking sides, if you can. Help siblings learn how to work out disagreements on their own. They can take turns, find compromises, or come up with solutions that make everyone happy. Work as a team: Give siblings chances to work together on projects or games. This builds teamwork and friendship. This can vary depending on their age but some options are: Building a fort Collaborative creative projects Collaborative board games Lego activities No favorites: Avoid comparing siblings or giving one special treatment. Each child is unique and valuable in their own way. Sharing: Make sure toys, attention, and privileges are divided fairly among siblings. As mentioned above, children do not grasp the concept of sharing until 5 years old. One way to introduce this concept is to have expectations on what is shared and what isn't.  Respect differences: Encourage siblings to appreciate each other's unique qualities and interests. Diversity makes families special and it can be a fun activity to have everyone in the family name something that each family member does well.  Get help if needed: If sibling arguments keep happening or cause big problems, it's okay to ask for help from a counselor or therapist who can offer advice and support. Reset: Sometimes emotions are high, and siblings need a fun reset. Here are some ideas.  It’s essential to understand that each child is unique. They have their own personalities, behaviors, and strengths. So, parents should pay attention to what each child needs and adjust how they parent accordingly. For example, one child might enjoy spending time alone, while another might prefer being around others. By recognizing and respecting these differences, parents can ensure that each child feels understood and supported. This helps create a loving and caring family where everyone feels valued. Family Time It may be a challenge to give each child the time and attention they need. You may feel like you are constantly being pulled in different directions by your family. It may help to divide things up into the following:  Together Time. Do some activities as a family as a whole.  Alone Time. Children need decompressing time just like adults. Don't force them to be playing with a sibling if they would rather play alone. Scheduled alone time may fit this need for both you and your children!  One-on-One Time. Schedule a time for a child to have Mom and/or Dad all to themselves. This can provide the attention a child needs at a time that works best for you.  Including these different times into your family schedule can help you fulfill the needs of individual children, yourself, and the family as a whole.  Nurturing sibling relationships can be a complex yet rewarding journey. Each family is unique with its own set of strengths and challenges. Finding the right approach may take some time and adjustments, and that's okay. What has worked for your family? 

I have always loved children. As the oldest of four children in my own family, I watched after my siblings with care and sought to help my mother when I could. Most of the weekends of my teen years were spent babysitting for families in the neighborhood, and I loved every minute of it. I'm now at the age when I can start my own family and a lot of my friends already have children. I have watched in awe as my childhood friends began to raise their little ones, and I have also watched them struggle along the way. My eyes were truly opened to the many struggles parents face, every day.  As someone who plans to become a mother, I took what I observed to heart. Parenting is hard! It's a full-time job, and my friends were also working outside the home so that they could provide for their families, which was even more draining. Some had family nearby that could help, but oftentimes, they lived too far from extended family to get the help they so desperately needed. I turned this reflection inward - what could I do to help my friends along their parenting journey, especially as someone without children who couldn't understand exactly what they were going through?  Jump to:  Helping Parents by Becoming Their Village  What Do Parents Actually Need? Are You a Parent Looking for Support? Helping Parents by Becoming Their Village  Have you ever heard the phrase, "It takes a village to raise a child?" While I knew of the phrase, it didn't sink in until recently. Children need a village. Parents need a village. They need support as they navigate this new path of life. People used to have a village, with their local community and extended family offering help with childcare, meals, and much more. However, in our increasingly individualistic society, those days are dwindling. Parents often live away from extended family due to external circumstances, and it can be awkward to reach out to friends and family to help, especially since they may feel like their friendships may be strained due to their limited time and energy.  This concerned me and I wanted to help. I realized that some of the best service I could offer was my time. It was hard for my friends to accept my help at first. One such friend, who I met in an adult ballet class in my local community, lived in my neighborhood. She had extended family who lived an hour away, so she would only ask for their help to watch her children when she really needed it, but she expressed that sometimes she wished she could just run to the store on her own. I offered to watch her daughters, to which she said it wasn't necessary. I repeated my offer and reassured her that I understood her very real and valid struggles and that I would love to help whenever she needed me, no questions asked.  While it took over a month and several offers for my friend to accept my help, I was glad that my friend trusted me enough to let me be her village. I was able to support her and her family as they navigated challenges, including the loss of a loved one, welcoming a new baby, and her girls starting at a new school. Our friendship grew stronger, and watching her daughters became the highlight of my week.  One of her concerns in accepting my help was that it would strain our relationship. She didn't want me to feel like she was taking advantage of me, or that our friendship was going to become one-sided. She wanted me to feel like a friend, not a babysitter. I reassured her that I only offered the help I was truly willing to give and that she was still a wonderful friend. We discovered that our friendship actually grew and strengthened due to the increased time we saw each other. She was there for me during a difficult time when my husband was at an internship several states away, and her family invited me along on their outings when I was feeling particularly lonely.  Becoming the village for my friends is one of the most rewarding parts of my life. It has provided meaningful connections and given me joy I could have never expected.  What Do Parents Actually Need? Helping parents in your life can be incredibly rewarding, but also tricky. How do you offer your help in a way that isn't condescending or uncomfortable? How do you set boundaries so that you don't come to resent being asked for help? How do you know what is actually helpful? I also had these questions, and sometimes I still do! Each family is unique in their challenges and needs. I've found that it can be easier to navigate the awkwardness by being open and asking your friends what they would consider helpful.  For example, I brought up the subject by expressing my desire to become a mother, and asking my friend what some of the most challenging aspects of motherhood were for her. Based on her answers, I asked how one could support her in those aspects, and offered her my help.  We asked our audience recently what would feel the most supportive as parents. Here are some of their responses:  "Someone offering to watch baby so I can sleep!"  "Time to myself! Time out of the house." "A pamper myself kind of day." "[I have a] medically complex child. Meal trains after hospitalizations are amazing and so supportive."  "Someone bringing over a meal or lunch options (and paper plates!)"  "Having friends ask to watch my kids at their house."  "Food. Groceries, snacks, and non-takeout meals."  "Getting to take a bath!" "Coffee" Are You a Parent Looking for Support? These days, it can be tough to find support. It can be awkward and vulnerable to ask for help, and you may feel like you are a burden if you do accept kind offers. You may feel isolated and that you do not have anyone to turn to for support. Thankfully, there are places that you can turn to that already have a built-in community. There are local community groups for parents, faith-based groups, and online groups.  Here are some places you can search for a community:  Parents Helping Parents Wild and free Church groups Local Facebook groups or mother support groups- Search by location on Facebook ("City Name Moms", "Moms of [City/Neighborhood]", etc) Community centers Meetup.com Parent-specific fitness classes MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Hike it Baby Moms RUN This Town  Your child's school or daycare Start your own! Follow your interest and do a book club, a meal exchange, a walking group, a play group, etc. Just as I have found fulfillment in helping the parents in my life, there are countless others ready to walk with you on this journey, whether it be friends or people in your community you have yet to meet. 

Sprout worked with a licensed professional counselor to get insight into emotional regulation in children. She is currently finishing up a PHD in counseling and works with children at a nonprofit in their child development center. When asked about different ways that different ages of children are able to self-regulate she shares: "Emotional regulation abilities develop gradually throughout childhood and adolescence. While there is variability among individuals, here is a general guideline for the appropriate level of emotional regulation at various age levels:  Infancy (0-2 years): Infants begin to learn basic emotional regulation skills, such as self-soothing and seeking comfort from caregivers when distressed. They rely heavily on external regulation from caregivers to manage their emotions.  Early Childhood (3-5 years): Preschool-aged children start to develop more sophisticated emotional regulation skills. They can label and express basic emotions verbally, although they may still struggle with controlling intense emotions like anger or frustration. They may use simple coping strategies like taking deep breaths or seeking comfort from a trusted adult. Middle Childhood (6-11 years): Children in this age range continue to refine their emotional regulation abilities. They become more adept at recognizing and managing a wider range of emotions, including complex emotions like jealousy or disappointment. They can use cognitive strategies such as problem-solving or perspective-taking to regulate their emotions.  Adolescence (12-18 years): Adolescents make significant strides in emotional regulation as they gain more self-awareness and impulse control. They can understand and regulate their emotions more effectively, although they may still experience mood swings and intense emotions due to hormonal changes and social pressures. They may also begin to develop more sophisticated coping strategies, such as seeking social support or engaging in activities that promote relaxation and stress relief.  It's important to note that individual differences exist, and children may develop emotional regulation skills at different rates. Additionally, environmental factors, such as parenting styles and social experiences, can influence the development of emotional regulation abilities. Providing children with support, guidance, and opportunities to practice emotional regulation skills can facilitate healthy development in this area."    To support children in developing emotional regulation, caregivers can introduce tools such as mindfulness exercises, emotion cards, or calming techniques like deep breathing. Additionally, modeling healthy emotional regulation and offering consistent, empathetic responses to a child’s emotional needs can significantly enhance their ability to self-regulate over time.    By fostering a nurturing and responsive environment, we can empower children to manage their emotions and navigate challenges with resilience and confidence.

I'm Annie Hays! I have been working with young children in a Montessori setting for nine years, and love implementing the philosophy at home with my little boy. I hold a Bachelor’s degree in Human Development & Early Childhood Education, as well as a Montessori teaching credential for ages 3-6, and I love what I do!   Organizing toys for my three-year-old is quite different from preparing a classroom, but a home can still be a Montessori-inspired space. When it feels like we’re drowning in toys, I prioritize these three tenets of a child-centered space: keeping his things accessible, functional, and inviting. For us, having an open, low shelf in our living area works best, so that while we are doing our work in the kitchen or on the couch, he can do his work close by. Just like in a classroom environment, a low and accessible shelf helps children see where their activities go and learn to put them away when they are finished. Paradoxically, having fewer options available leads to more meaningful play. To set up a child-centered space conducive to independent play, try using a toy rotation system, choosing one thing from each of these categories:  Something to Build Something to Solve Something to Create Something to Pretend Something to Read Something From Nature to Explore Something to Build Open-ended play encourages creativity and collaboration, invites concentration, and fosters problem-solving skills. We rotate through wooden blocks, magnetiles, a marble run, or train tracks to build big structures - and of course, knock them over when we’re done! While I don’t suggest using bins of toys (they just invite dumping) I find my biggest basket or wooden box so that it can hold as many pieces as possible. I always make sure it’s a sturdy box with handles, but small enough that Pete can independently carry it to a work mat when he’s ready to play. This also ensures that clean-up is reasonable for a 3-year-old since we only have a limited amount. We observe his play to see when it’s time to change it up - but haven’t rotated out his marble run since Christmas! Something to Solve On the flip side, toys with an end goal and a clear purpose are self-correcting, and help children identify their own mistakes. We can make these more inviting by leaving a puzzle undone - as an invitation to be solved. These materials build frustration tolerance and task persistence as children work toward the end goal. Our job is to observe without correcting, assessing their level of mastery. If they catch their mistake, we know they are closer to mastering the material, and ready for more challenge. If they don’t notice the control of error, we make a mental note of that but don’t interrupt. We support them just enough to get through the tricky part but always allow them to finish the task themselves, so they have the feeling of: I did it! Through observation, our job is to select something for our children to solve that’s not so easy that it gets misused, but not so hard that they get overly frustrated and want to give up. Of course, it’s always fun to complete something you know you’re good at, so we rotate puzzles in and out that Peter has mastered before. When he hasn’t seen it for a while, it feels like a new toy! Something to Create I love providing a stack of blank paper at Peter’s level so he can help himself anytime he wants to make a love note, a birthday card, or just create something to hang on the fridge. We select a few art mediums to have available, assessing his fine motor skills and looking for a proper pencil grip. Stickers are great for practicing pinching - just remove the white background sticker to set them up for success! Rock crayons and stubby pieces of chalk encourage proper pencil grip - we waited to introduce long crayons and pencils until we saw he had created a good habit of holding a writing utensil properly. His Montessori teacher in toddlers gave him a lesson on using triangular crayons, and he has used a proper pencil grip ever since! Rotating through paint sticks, wax crayons, and watercolors keeps these invitations fresh, and we love watching him add his little monogram “P” as a signature to each of his masterpieces. Of course, we also have magnets available at his level on the fridge for him to display any of his artwork! Something to Pretend Young children love mimicking the world they see around them, and they often process situational questions and emotions through pretend play. In Montessori, we lean into reality since young children are so fascinated with the natural world around them. Try selecting animal figurines that are anatomically correct over cartoons. Offer vehicles of community helpers that your children see driving around the neighborhood. Try finding child-sized but functional tools they see adults around them use. Of course, having baby dolls available (to girls and boys!) is always a lovely invitation to practice nurturing care. I put our costumes in this dramatic play category as well — Peter loves wearing a white coat when he uses his doctor kit, a firefighter jacket with his trucks, and butterfly wings whenever we go to dance class. He also loves the mermaid dress he picked out at the store, and we’re excited to lean into fantasy even more around age 6 when he enters the second plane of development! Organizing these dramatic play items into individual baskets (and offering one at a time) leads to less clutter and more productive play.  Something to Read Storytime is an essential part of our bedtime routine, and we also love sprinkling books around the rest of Pete’s environment. Placing books front-facing makes them a little more inviting, especially as we rotate them frequently. We display books on his toy shelf, in his little playroom, and we set up a little reading nook with a rocking chair at the top of the stairs. Pro-tip: when I’m tired of reading a bedtime book for the millionth time, I move it from his bedroom bookshelf to his independent reading basket. This makes the rocking chair more inviting for him, and then together, we get to read something new(ish) from a fresh rotation. There is also a little book basket in the restroom to use as needed, (game changer during toilet learning!) and another stack of books under our coffee table. We can’t get enough - especially keeping them accessible and inviting! Try keeping a library of all your books in a closet, then rotate through a few books at a time, creating a cozy spot to read together or on their own.  Something From Nature to Explore While nothing can replace outdoor play, we love bringing life and nature into Pete’s environment.  We have various jars and dishes full of treasures we have collected on nature walks, most of them as simple as a handful of acorns or a row of rocks displayed on a shelf. He also has a watering can accessible to him to help us care for plants that are within reach. When he was 1-2 years old, we had a few soil spills here and there, where we consistently redirected playing with plants to watering them instead and sweeping up the dirt together. Nowadays, I can’t remember the last time he misused the plants that are still well within his reach. Try sprinkling your child’s environment with real things from nature to examine, sort, and collect, helping them connect with the world around them.  A Few Final Thoughts:  If you’d like to prepare a child-centered space, start simple, sort by function, and then observe the child at play to see what adjustments you’d like to make! Maybe something isn’t as functional as you envisioned and needs a little change. Maybe the materials are too hard for the child so they get overly frustrated, or perhaps they are too easy - so they get mistreated. We use observation to guide our decisions as we prepare a child-centered environment that invites exploration, concentration, and most of all, meaningful play.    I absolutely love curating a space to be accessible to young children, functional for their little hands, and most of all, inviting to their curious minds. Feel free to follow along with my professional and parenting journey on Instagram @tinyhumans___ and drop any questions below. Happy preparing! 

I'm Annie Hays, and I'm excited to share a how-to guide on creating child-centered spaces. I have nine years of experience working with young children in a Montessori setting, with a Bachelor's degree in Human Development & Early Childhood Education, along with a Montessori teaching credential for ages 3-6. When preparing a child-centered space, our goal is for the child’s environment to be: Accessible  Functional  Inviting  We create moments of learning by setting up provocations for a child to be drawn to an activity, explore the material, and achieve their self-directed goals. Then, we sit back and observe as this valuable play builds up confidence in their capabilities.  My first step is to sort materials by function, always keeping these three tenets in mind: how can I make this functional, accessible, and inviting to this particular child? Jump To: A Note About Breakable Materials Why Shelf Work? Areas in a Classroom Art & Practical Life Geography & Peace Botany & Zoology Math & Sensorial Language & Penmanship A Few Final Thoughts   A Note About Breakable Materials Trusting children with beautiful things helps even the youngest ones learn to treat materials with care. When we are kindly consistent and lovingly firm, fragile materials help busy hands become gentle and purposeful. Young children become much more intentional with their movements when they have to be delicate and precise. Of course, we keep reasonable expectations of the way children experiment with materials, make little mistakes, or even test limits. It’s important to minimize our gasps and reactions, as well as shameful responses when something inevitably breaks. But when this happens, children witness the natural consequence of rushed or mindless movements, coming to understand the importance of intentionally caring for our things. Since young children notice the tiniest details, we opt for wood, ceramic, or woven materials that showcase true beauty. There are many affordable options at thrift stores and second-hand shops, and looking for tiny treasures for tiny hands makes preparing the environment so much fun! Why Shelf Work? When toys and lessons are down low and accessible, children often help themselves to complete their self-directed tasks. After they are done, putting their things away isn’t such a big ask when there is a place for everything and everything is in its place. In a functional and orderly environment, children can see where each lesson goes on the shelf, and reach their next choice with ease. Both at school and at home, putting things away is an expectation that we always follow through with, until it becomes a habit. Building community is at the heart of what we do, and that means we work together to take care of our things. Sprout Washing Station Areas in a Classroom Art & Practical Life  Geography & Peace  Botany & Zoology Math & Sensorial Language & Penmanship  Whatever space you are preparing, our goal is for children to have the freedom to choose their work and play, find focus and concentration as they engage, and achieve their small yet important goals. In Montessori, we sequence materials on the shelf starting with the most simple activities, gradually increasing in difficulty as we move from left to right. As children move through the environment, our job is to ensure every detail is functional for their tiny hands. We try to avoid hiccups along the way that might disrupt their flow of concentration. We select trays and baskets that can be carried to a workspace successfully and choose something with just the right amount of challenge so they can accomplish their task with the materials provided. We offer support as needed but step back to let them see what they are capable of when the environment is prepared specifically for them.  Art & Practical Life These activities are designed to strengthen hand-eye coordination, fine motor skills, concentration, and independence. It helps to isolate each activity on a tray, including all of the tools they will need to accomplish that particular task. This allows the child to carry the whole activity to their workspace (at a child-sized table, work mat on the floor, or chowki) and have everything they need within reach. Color coordinating the dishes and materials helps keep each activity organized and appeals to the young child’s sense of order.  On the practical life shelf, we invite children to try tasks that adults often rush to do for children, such as pouring, scooping, zipping, self-care, and preparing food. We offer mirrors at the child’s level to help them practice blowing their nose, place dustpans and towels in a predictable place to clean up any spills and provide other invitations to explore their capabilities within daily life tasks. Rather than using pretend tools or pretend food, try offering child-sized but functional tools, such as a screwdriver, hair brush, or strawberry slicer. After modeling how to use it properly, watch the child’s concentration and task persistence grow as they learn what they are capable of! In art, working with the whole hand comes first, such as using playdough, stamps, or dot markers. As the sequence continues, we offer tools with increasing difficulty, such as using a glue stick, shaped hole punchers, crayon rubbings, painting water with a large brush, using paint with smaller brushes, followed by using scissors. Whatever art materials you have available, try separating them into trays to make the activities accessible, functional, and inviting. Having a small stack of paper that goes along with each art project helps them get it ready for the next person when they are done!  Geography & Peace This curriculum is designed to help children learn that we are all part of one interconnected whole, helping them become conscious and contributing community members. Adding a globe at the child’s level for them to spin, examine, and study teaches the elements that the Earth is made of, and helps children understand early on that we share our home with many other living things. Our goal is to fill the environment with life, including plants all around the room and a class pet, if possible, inviting children to help care for them. Adding real photos of the architecture, landmarks, cuisine, traditional clothing, and animal life across continents appeals to children’s curiosity about the real world around them. We also love collecting beautiful, cultural artifacts for children to explore, some for display, and others to examine, organize, wear, and play with. We introduce the flora and fauna native to each continent as we study, and focus on exposure to a variety of cultures around the world.  Here are the continent boxes from my classroom at Soaring Wings Montessori School. We bring them out as we study the continent, and keep them on the shelf for children to learn from! My favorite moments are when an artifact or two gets mixed up, and a child notices the mistake. “Silly panda, you don’t live in North America! Let’s put you back in Asia…”  In the peace corner, we offer activities for emotional regulation, as well as conflict resolution with peers. I love including a mirror at the child’s height, and laminated photos of children with a variety of emotions (happy, sad, calm, silly, frustrated, lonely, shy, overwhelmed, peaceful, etc.) to help them label their feelings. Try offering a basket of fidgets, a wooden labyrinth, a weighted beanbag, and of course a pillow to make it a cozy place to relax. This can be a wonderful space for children to retreat when they are dysregulated (although it is never a time-out), a place to spend some time after completing a big project, or just a fun area to spend some time whenever they are in the mood.  Conflict often gets a bad rap, since we just want children to “get along.” However, every healthy relationship where everyone is being truthful and standing up for their needs will lead to disagreement. Conflict is an excellent learning opportunity for children to stand up for themselves, set boundaries with friends, and find a compromise. Every Montessori classroom has a peace object, often a rose, that indicates when it is your turn to talk. When children find themselves in a disagreement, they are encouraged to have a peace talk where they each have a chance to share how they feel, and what they need. Adults often facilitate these talks as a mediator, but sometimes children find a solution all on their own. Try finding something special that the child can hold when they need others to listen, (since ours is the turquoise class, our peace object is a turquoise heart), and as they resolve conflicts, coach children in setting boundaries, such as: “I’ll play with you when you listen to my ideas too.”  “Right now I need space, but let’s have a snack together later.”  “I don’t appreciate being shouted at. When you speak to me softly, I will listen.”  Although this generally occurs in a classroom between children, don’t underestimate the power of introducing a peace object at home, too! This can add some really helpful structure to finding a compromise between parent and child.  Botany & Zoology Children are innately curious about the natural world around them, and young children are in a sensitive period for tiny objects. You may have noticed a collection of tiny woodchips or pebbles that seem insignificant to us, but very important to a young child. Let’s lean into this interest, and prepare these collected nature treasures on a tray with a magnifying glass, as well as realistic animal figurines and real photographs as we introduce each family in the animal kingdom. For instance, we display a variety of feathers for children to examine and compare when studying birds, we offer a basket of snake skin for children to gently touch when we study reptiles, and we often take a trip to a local farm when we study mammals.  Learning about the needs of plants (and caring for them around the classroom) helps children connect with living things and find awe in the world around them. Try collecting nature treasures together, and conduct research according to their interests. In Montessori classrooms, we prepare activities to dive deeper into the study of seeds, roots, flowers, fruits & vegetables throughout the year, conducting science experiments and learning the real, scientific terms of each living thing as we go.  Math & Sensorial When preparing academic materials in the classroom, making them inviting is key! Minimizing clutter and using woven baskets, wooden trays, and ceramic dishes to display activities in sequential order makes all the difference. When you notice something is collecting dust on the shelf and is rarely chosen by your students, try displaying it in a new basket or a different spot on the shelf to see if these small details appeal to the children.  Our goal in the sensorial curriculum is to help children refine their senses, and invite them to compare and contrast tiny details in an effort to prepare their mathematical mind. Concrete experiences with counting are paramount in the early years as they memorize numerical symbols, and eventually learn to understand math in abstract concepts. These materials aren’t usually rotated out throughout the year, because there will be children at different stages of the curriculum at all times. We utilize beautiful baskets and trays and switch out counting objects seasonally to keep this curriculum area fresh and exciting! (i.e. counting rose petals for Valentine’s Day, pumpkin seeds around Halloween, or glass gems that are so inviting for young children to hold.)  Language & Penmanship Welcoming children to the world of reading is an exciting opportunity for educators. Using visual discrimination exercises, sound games, alphabetical symbols, and tiny objects, our goal is to make language learning playful. We rotate the options frequently so that materials are fresh and exciting, with a variety of things to try. Preparing this part of the classroom can be tricky since there is a wide variety of skill levels in an Early Childhood environment, so we need to have many different materials available. We try our best to minimize clutter and highlight hands-on experiences with letters and sounds. In Montessori, we use tiny objects to help children break down words into phonemes. As they begin to memorize alphabetical symbols and their correlating sounds, we introduce blending and offer them tiny objects to spell with the Moveable Alphabet. Encoding words often comes first, followed by the ability to sound out phonetic words, and decode the messages all around them!  In this curriculum area, try separating language skills from penmanship skills. Some children have the hand strength to copy over anything with beautifully legible penmanship, but they struggle to remember letter sounds independently. Other children begin reading seemingly effortlessly but get frustrated holding a writing utensil to write their names. When we isolate these two skills, we can focus on the child’s biggest challenge. Do they need to scribble and draw more often with rock crayons and stubby chalk to get in the habit of using a proper pencil grip? Or do they need to repetitively trace the sandpaper letters, (studying 3 at a time)  to memorize what sound each letter makes? Assessing the child through observation is our job as educators. As we pin down which skills the child needs to master next, we prepare the environment in a way that calls to the child: making it inviting and fun, accessible and within reach, and of course, functional for them to continue their growth and learning.  A Few Final Thoughts As you prepare your own child-centered space, it might be easy to feel overwhelmed. Remember that you can keep it simple, sort things by function, and make adjustments as you observe your child! Don’t be afraid to change materials or activities to better meet their needs. Observation can guide decisions as you prepare a space for children that invites exploration, concentration, and most of all, meaningful play.  Preparing the environment is my first task as a Montessori guide, and it gets easier. I love curating spaces to be accessible to young children, functional for their little hands, and most of all, inviting to their curious minds. Email me at annie.hays.tinyhumans@gmail.com to book a consultation in your classroom or your home environment, and follow along with my journey on Instagram @tinyhumans___. Happy preparing!

This video takes you on a tour of the Orlando Montessori Bilingual Academy, highlighting their use of Sprout furniture. It highlights their experiences and insights on outfitting their school with this specialized furniture, and getting customized furniture for their space. 

Why Cook with Kids?  Learning to cook teaches many different lessons such as learning to do things in a certain order, weighing and measuring, fractions, time management fine motor skills, and an introduction to various new foods. Beyond that, though, including kids in the kitchen can provide opportunities for bonding and connecting, which can be powerful influences on their security and development.    How to Cook with Toddlers In any new environment or situation, teaching and modeling consistently is important. For children, everything is new, and as the parent you get to choose what boundaries to set.  Set your child up for success by providing a way for your child to reach the counter. Whether you use a step stool, or an item like the Toddler Tower, ensure it is on a stable surface that cannot easily tip over. Read more about Toddler Tower Safety Tips!  Kitchen Safety for Kids As you prepare to cook with your child, teaching them kitchen safety is just as important as teaching them how to cook, and many injuries can be prevented by following safe practices.  If your child tends to grab things off the counter, you might consider preparing the space so that they have a few safe items within reach, and other items have been moved out of the way (think of mixers, blenders, adult knives, etc).  The Toddler Tower can be helpful as children practice hand washing, especially after handling raw ingredients. Other things to consider are proper knife usage, being aware of the hot stove and/or oven, and handling breakable materials carefully. If you're looking for tips on introducing breakable materials to small children, our breakable materials blog has some helpful ideas!  Teaching Kids to Cook When you start to include your child in the kitchen, plan for things to take longer than they would if you were to do it yourself. Remember, it's more about the time invested and skills learned than the actual outcome of a recipe. As you introduce your child to various aspects of cooking, it can help to start with basic skills and then build upon them over time. When they are trying something new, recognize that they will likely not get it the first time or two, but that does not necessarily mean you need to step in. You can observe and wait for them to ask or slowly show (not tell!) them how to do it again.  Tasks for Kids New to Cooking: Pouring or dumping pre-measured ingredients Stirring Scooping ingredients out of their containers Sprinkling cheese Shuck corn Mashing bananas Put liners in a muffin tin Wash fruit and veggies Observing   Cooking Tasks for Children with More Experience: Cracking eggs Buttering bread Peeling fruits and vegetables Shredding ingredients such as cheese  Peeling garlic Cutting soft fruit with a kid-friendly knife Juice fruit Set a timer Mash avocados Supervised cooking on the stove, such as flipping pancakes  Easy Toddler Recipes  Looking for a few simple recipes to make with your little one? Here are some of our favorites! Nachos (Melt shredded cheese on top of tortilla chips and let your little one add toppings!)  Muffins Banana Bread Pizza Smoothies Pancakes Lasagna (Let them layer the noodles or sprinkle the cheese!) Cookies Waffles Simple bread dough Following a checklist or sequence of steps can help children follow directions and remember their next task. Introducing a new recipe might sound like, "Today, we are making muffins. First, we will gather our ingredients, then make the batter, then scoop it into the muffin tins, and then bake them in the oven." For children who can't read yet, visual recipes can help them follow along! You might try pictures of each ingredient, images of actions like mixing or pouring, and the sequential steps in the recipe. For older children, cooking is an opportunity to practice reading and math skills as they read through and follow a recipe.  No matter their prior experience, including all ages of children in clean-up is an important part of learning to cook! You might have them wash dishes, wipe the countertop, or sweep spilled ingredients off the floor. Establishing cleaning up as a part of the cooking process helps reduce messes and is a task that many adults are still learning!  Other Ways to Include Children in the Kitchen:  You may have times when including your child in the kitchen isn't practical or supporting your needs. Here are a few ideas for when your child wants to help:  Ask them to set the table for the meal. Inviting them to make name cards or find a special centerpiece for the table can be a fun way to accomplish the task if they need a little encouragement.  If a timer needs to be set, you can let them be the one to start and/or stop the timer.   Let them wash the dishes in the sink after you use them. A scrub brush, soap, and some water can be a wonderful time! Keep food safety in mind when you do this, and maybe save items like cutting boards with raw meat for an adult or older child to clean.  Ask them to gather ingredients for you. Set them up with a separate activity so that they can still be next to you but engaged in something else. The Weaning Table can be a helpful place for arts and crafts, reading, or sitting with a snack while they stay close to you.   

If you struggle with guilt when you read parenting books, it can help to approach it like a mood board or advice from a cool aunt who has many beautiful ideas about kids but doesn’t have any themselves. Many books have a lot of good intentions and beautiful ideas but are meant to inspire and support YOU, not make you change everything about who you are. It is probably for the best to not view parenting books as how-to books. If a book is not serving you, you can give yourself permission to stop reading 📚With that in mind, here are some parenting books that we got some good ideas from!  Why we love Self-Reg: How to Help Your Child (and You) Break the Stress Cycle and Successfully Engage with Life:   It shares insight on staying calm and reducing stress in an overstimulating world Why we love this series: It provides pedagogically-based activities and ideas if you want a more Montessori-inspired home Why we love Good Inside: It provides actionable tips from a child and family clinical psychologist Why we love Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids:    Practical strategies for a less-is-more approach to parenting (Waldorf-inspired) Why we love Hunt, Gather, Parent: It highlights parenting techniques from indigenous cultures from around the world Why we love Simple Happy Parenting: It provides actionable strategies for simplifying parenting, reducing stress, and building connection Why we love How To Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk: It provides simple ideas of things you can do and say during challenging moments Why we love The Whole-Brain Child: It provides practical strategies to help children navigate their feelings as their brains develop Why we love Balanced and Barefoot: It shares statistics and insight about the impact of nature and outdoor play on a developing child Why we love The Montessori Home: It’s a visual guide with ideas for creating a Montessori home environment Why we love The Joyful Child: It offers practical activities to support different milestones in a child’s life Why we love Playful Parenting: It offers insight and playful activities that encourage a child to feel safe and understand new things Why we love Differently Wired: It encourages deeper thinking and reframing for parenting children with neurodifferences with practical advice Why we love Raising Good Humans: While this book is titled 'Raising Good Humans', it focuses a lot on exercises to better yourself first before bettering your children   Modeling reading is a great activity to do in front of your child! Children are constantly learning by observing the world around them, and by picking up your own book and reading, you are showing them that reading is important and fun. Looking to encourage your little reader more? A book shelf with covers facing outwards can help encourage interest.  Do you enjoy any of these? Help us learn and share some of your favorites below, too ⬇️

Sprout Floor Beds were designed to be low and accessible for children as they learn to regulate their sleep and learn their body cues. Now that your child has gotten used to their floor bed, you might be wondering when is a good time to raise their bed off the ground.

Heavy work utilizes many senses and parts of the body, all of which respond to the brain with the appropriate information. It can help provide grounding and sensory regulation for children, and can be achieved through practical life activities. 

This blog is intended as a resource for parents looking for a mattress that will fit the Birch Montessori Floor Bed and/or the Sosta Bed. We know this is an important transition for parents and children alike, and we hope parents feel empowered and educated to make the proper decisions for their unique child. If you'd like to learn about specific safety regulations for children's bedding, our Bedding Recommendations blog can be a helpful resource.  Jump To: What Mattress Should I Get Mattress Safety Guidelines Community Mattress Recommendations Infant Sleep Recommendations Mattresses to Consider Avoiding What Mattress Should I Get We recommend the following mattress dimensions for a safe and comfortable fit in our bed frames:   Birch Montessori Floor Bed Crib Size: 52" L x 28" W Twin Size: 75” L x 38" W Full Size: 75" L x 54" W Sosta Bed Twin Size: 75" L x 38" W  In order to allow a child greater independence to use the floor bed without assistance, we suggest a mattress thickness of 4-8 inches. We encourage this because a thinner mattress allows the child greater independence to get in and out of their bed without assistance. If you’d prefer a thicker mattress, perhaps consider your child’s height and if they’ll be able to utilize the bed on their own.  The Sosta Bunk Bed requires a mattress thickness of 4-8 inches for the top bunk. Never use a mattress that exceeds 8" on the top bunk. The surface of mattress must be at least 5" (127mm) below the upper edge of the guardrails. Mattress companies have different standards for how much variation is allowed within their mattresses. Some companies have a small amount of variation, while others’ sizes can vary up to an inch. Their standards are continually updating and changing, which makes it difficult to give specific brand recommendations. For the most accurate information, we recommend you reach out to the mattress company you are considering for your child and ask them for their variance standards.  Mattress Safety Guidelines It is important for your child’s mattress to fit snugly in the bed frame. If the mattress is too big and is forced to fit inside the bed frame, the quality of the mattress may be compromised. If the mattress is too small, gaps between the mattress and the bed frame can lead to entrapment. (Entrapment is when a child’s body or limb becomes trapped between the mattress and the bed frame, or between the bed frame and the wall, and they are unable to free themselves. This can result in injury or death, depending on the severity of the entrapment.) Children are curious and love to explore their environment. We encourage you to prepare their sleep environment with their curiosities in mind and prepare for any and all safety concerns. Community Mattress Recommendations Previously, we had a more robust blog with many specific mattress recommendations. However, because mattress companies are constantly changing, we cannot in good conscience continue to recommend a large number of mattresses.    Below you’ll find the top mattresses we have heard be recommended by customers who have used them with a Sprout bed frame. As we have not seen every mattress in person and do not know the variance, we can NOT guarantee that they will fit in your bed frame. We don't get any perks from these links, they are just customer recommendations on mattresses they were satisfied with. We ask that if you have any negative experiences with any of these mattresses contact us so we can update our list. NewtonBrentwood Homes Juniper Mattress from Costco If you are hoping for mattress details, we recommend reaching out to the mattress company. Here are the top things to consider and ask about:  What is the recommended mattress firmness for your child’s age?  What kind of airflow do they recommend for your child’s sleeping style? If they are a hot or cold sleeper, how will this affect how much airflow they need?  What level of size variance do they allow in their mattress?  Infant Sleep Recommendations Please note that we can never advise whether a child is ready for a certain bed or not. The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) regulations prevent companies from selling beds that are not enclosed as products for infants under 15 months. Many families choose to switch their children earlier than 15 months. We say that ultimately, as a parent you'll know what's best for your child to meet their specific needs. The Montessori way promotes growth at a younger age, which can contradict safety regulations, which is why we defer that decision to you as a parent.  We recommend that for the sake of your child’s safety, you conduct in-depth research into the firmness needed for your child’s mattress, as there are greater concerns for sleep safety the younger the age of your child.  If you would like to learn more about specific mattress recommendations for children and infants, check out these links:  Mattress Clarity Babylist Article  Mattresses to Consider Avoiding Please note that the following mattress companies consistently manufacture mattresses that do not fit our bed frames. We do not intend to shame these companies by listing them here; rather, we seek to provide you with information so that you can make an informed decision.  Avocado Mattress  We have heard of experiences with customers purchasing the Avocado mattress that worked just fine, but we also had customers share experiences with the Avocado that have been negative. The Avocado mattress has a high degree of variance that can make the mattress either not ideal in the frame, or not fit at all. Below are photos of the mattress on top of the frame, or squished into the frame. Their posted measurements of the mattress would allow the mattress to fit, but Avocado's allowed variances keep this from being certain. "We make our mattresses a tad bit larger than crib dimensions so they fit snug, eliminating gaps between the mattress and crib and we also allow for up to a 1" in variance from the advertised dimensions"- Avocado   Naturepedic Organic Mattress While we have had some customers purchase the Naturepedic Organic Mattress without any problems, other customers have found that the mattress was too short, even though the dimensions on their website are within the recommendations for the Sosta Bed. This was acknowledged by Naturepedic as a sizing issue on their end, but we want to make our customers aware of it as well.  Helix Mattress This mattress was advertised as meeting the recommended 75" length, but when the customer received the mattress, it only measured 71" in length.  Leesa Kids Mattress This mattress was previously recommended, but a customer recently reached out to let us know that there was significant gapping between the mattress and bed.  Nest Puffin (Formerly Nest Big Kid Bed) We had a customer reach out and inform us that their Nest Puffin mattress was a full 2" shorter than the 75" the mattress company advertised.     Please note that we are not a mattress company. Our Customer Support agents are not trained or qualified to answer questions about mattresses aside from giving the mattress size we recommend to fit in our bed frames. As such, we defer to the expertise of mattress companies when it comes to providing the most accurate information regarding the specific type of mattress your child needs for a safe sleep environment.

The benefits of our Montessori Floor Bed align with the teachings of Maria Montessori. The low height gives children access to their bed which allows them to self-regulate their sleep. This puts trust in them knowing their body and gives your child independence which leads to your child having self-confidence. Home is the best place to introduce the space to develop an understanding of themselves and the floor bed helps turn their bedroom into a learning environment. 

Use insights from pediatric sleep consultants, community tips highlighting the benefits and challenges of using a floor bed, and practical advice as you seek to transition your child to a floor bed.

Instead of going into a home office to do our work, we did our work in living rooms, kitchens, and backyards. Our kids got to be in the same room with us, see us working. While we have different ages of children in the home, ranging from 1 to 11 years in age, we found some commonalities in our experiences. Here’s what we noticed.

I’ve heard of the benefits of unstructured time outside repeatedly. I’ve seen the Instagram posts with children playing in their immaculately prepared outdoor spaces - gardening, climbing on their play structures, sliding, swinging, and carefully transferring water in their sensory table or mud kitchen.I’ll be honest; it felt a little out of reach. My backyard is not perfectly manicured; we don’t have a play structure, the garden is just a bed of dirt and weeds, and while we have a beautifully ample and open space to play, it didn’t feel like it was enough. But in a moment of motivation, I decided to dedicate a week of our lives to spending as much time outside as possible.I want to take a moment to acknowledge the privilege that comes with this experience. I work flexibly from home, I am able to spend my day outside with my children. Not everyone reading this is able to do this, so I am not here to tell you to replicate this experiment. I am here to share what I’ve learned and how it affected our family.Here are the challenges and joys we experienced! Less Screen Time Better Sleep More Stamina More Social Connections Our Challenges My Takeaway  Less Screen Time I think I share the same sentiment that many other parents feel—I want less screen time for my kids, but I also want a break now and then. On my first day outside, I immediately felt defeated. We had been out for one hour, and I was ready to be done. Needing some motivation, I decided to listen to a podcast by Ginny Yurich about how she started the movement 1000 Hours Outside1. She said that, on average, children consume 4-6 hours of screen time a day. What if children spent that much time outdoors?I found a new goal and a new motivation. Instead of merely spending as much time outside as we could, I wanted to spend at least 4-6 hours outside every day for one week. And that’s what we did. Better Sleep Sleep has been elusive in our home. My one-year-old still was not sleeping through the night. I woke up every morning feeling exhausted. On the first day, we spent a whopping seven hours outside, he even napped on a little cot outside for his morning nap, and to my surprise, he slept all night long.Our experience is backed by the National Sleep Foundation. Exposure to natural light supports our sleep patterns2. Being outside helps regulate the body’s internal clock and allows the body to wind down at night. When my son started sleeping, I was floored. I took it one step further. We didn’t turn any lights in our house on after the sun went down. We woke when the sun rose and slept when it went down. My goal was for my son’s sleep to improve, and it did. He slept all night every night for that entire week. What I didn’t expect was that my sleep also improved and I woke up feeling refreshed and ready for the day. More Stamina When we first began this journey, my children seemed to tire quickly. They would run (and crawl) around for an hour and seem to lose interest in what I had set up. As the week went on, I found their concentration and stamina outside began to lengthen. I observed my one-year-old in a pile of sticks, leaves, and pine straw for 30 minutes. He never once looked up at me or needed my entertainment. I was blown away by his focus and fascination with the nature around him. My children began to get curious—testing the sounds the rocks made when they banged together, looking for worms in the garden bed and watching them slowly disappear into the dirt again, or simply crawling into my lap and silently listening to the birds sing in the morning.While this may sound idyllic and unattainable, many scientists agree that time in nature restores our energy and enhances our ability to feel calm and focused. Stephen and Rachel Kaplan developed Attention Restoration Theory in the late 1980s, which proposes that exposure to nature improves our ability to concentrate, restores mental fatigue, and can even quicken recovery from injury or surgery3. Though the precise reasons behind these effects are difficult to delineate, many studies have validated the theory over time.As a tired and often overwhelmed mother of two small toddlers, I found it relieving to see that my children could entertain themselves, find beauty in the world around them, and find a calm yet energetic state while I sat and drank my coffee or did my work on the patio. Not only do children benefit cognitively, but they also benefit physically. Balance, coordination, core strength, posture, immunity, bone, and muscle strength are all developed and strengthened during active play outdoors. More Social Connections After the first three days outside, I was bored. I had been staring at the same backyard for three days. I was ready to do something new. With my commitment to this experiment, I reached out to friends and planned outdoor playdates. We spent time at parks and out on walks. I was able to connect with friends, and our children could run and play. I had to fulfill these hours outside, and I couldn’t do it on my own. I had to solicit the help and company of other parents. Without this goal of spending at least 4-6 hours outside, I could have easily isolated myself in my home for an entire week without seeing another person. I was challenged to spend my time in a new way and to seek out the support of other families. My children enjoyed our outings and seeing their friends, but I was most surprised by how refreshed I felt. Children and adults need human interaction, connection, and shared experiences. I needed this more than I realized.  Our Challenges   While we did see all of these benefits, I won't say that it came without effort, because things did not always go how I imagined. Day two of our week outside didn’t go according to plan. My two-year-old wasn’t feeling well and she just wanted to lay in her cot that we had set outside for downtime. We got a pillow and blankets and she watched a movie on her tablet while we played outside. As the morning went on, she continued to feel sick, so we went inside and I decided to cut our hours short for the day. Sometimes, despite our beautiful intentions, circumstances change and we have to adapt. In this experience, I learned that my goal should be to be as intentional as I can about how my children spend their time, but plans can be altered, and goals can be set aside for another day.  My Takeaway Our week outside was transformational. Even after our week was over, we continued to spend several hours a day outdoors. There are days when we get busy, illness, or the weather keeps us inside, but my takeaway from this experience is that my children need to be outside for unstructured play for a significant amount of time. They need time to explore, move their bodies, and appreciate the world around them. “In nature, children learn to take risks, overcome fears, make new friends, regulate emotions, and create imaginary worlds. It’s important that the adult allow children both the time and the space to play outdoors on a daily basis. It’s important that we give them the trust they deserve and the freedom they need to try out new theories and play schemes.” - Angela J. Hanscom, Balanced and Barefoot4 This Earth Day, I invite you to spend more conscious hours outside. Go to a park, call a friend to join you on a walk, or simply go out to your backyard or explore your own neighborhood. I’d love to hear about your experiences outside! Footnotes 1 "Yurich, Virginia (Host). (2019, January 28) “The Origin of 1000 Hours Outside”" 2 Suni, E. (2022, April 7). Light & Sleep: Effects on sleep quality. Sleep Foundation. Retrieved April 21, 2022, from https://www.sleepfoundation.org/bedroom-environment/light-and-sleep 3 Ackerman, C. E. (2020). What is Kaplan’s Attention Restoration Theory (ART)? PositivePsychology.com. Retrieved from https://positivepsychology.com/attention-restoration-theory/ 4 Hanscom, A. J. (2016). Balanced and barefoot: How unrestricted outdoor play makes for strong, confident, and capable children. New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

For teachers and parents, books can be a powerful tool to help students and children understand what they see and experience out in the world. Montessori-friendly books are ones that are rooted in reality and inspired by real world experiences. Illustrations portraying things that they see out in their everyday lives can illuminate the beauty in the ordinary – a sunset, a butterfly, a rainstorm, or a simple walk in the backyard. Our Montessori-Friendly Summer Reading List is perfect for the summer classroom environment or for reading at home with loved ones. Summer Days and Nights by Wong Herbert YeeBest for Ages 2-6 years old This book follows a little girl as she entertains herself with the sights, sounds, and fun activities of summer days and nights. We love books that highlight the joy and small details that make summer such a fun time of year. Summer Evening by Walter de la MareBest for Ages 0-5 yearsThis book is part of a series depicting each season. There are beautiful illustrations alongside de la Mare's poem about a summer evening. This is a beautiful book to enjoy animals, colors, and very little text that allows the reader to enjoy the beauty of the illustrations. We love artistic interpretations through words and illustrations that are inspired by the beauty of nature! Wave by Suzy LeeBest for Ages 2-5 yearsThis is a gorgeous, wordless book about a girl at the beach. The illustrations perfectly capture the many emotions the girl experiences when playing in the waves. We love books that spark the imagination by allowing children to put their own words or feelings into the story. Mama, Is It Summer Yet? by Nikki McClureBest for Ages 3-5 yearsA little boy, eagerly awaiting summer, asks his mother if it is summer yet. They watch for the signs of summer, like birds and the flowers. Reading books that promote new vocabulary and observation skills can help children navigate their world A Lullaby of Sumer Things by Natalie ZiarnikBest for Ages 4-8 yearsThis is a perfect book to end a summer day in preparation for bedtime! This is a wonderful rhyming book that can help your little one wind down from a fun-filled summer day. We love books that support our little one’s routines by helping them relate to families and children! We're Going on a Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen & Helen OxenburyBest for Ages 2-4 yearsThis is a classic book about a family outing to find a bear. The illustrations are beautiful and the simple text encourages children to join in! This is a personal favorite in our house. We read this book daily Before and After by Matthias Aregui & Anne-Margot RamsteinBest for Ages 1-5 yearsThis book makes connections between everyday things, like a chicken and an egg. The large illustrations are perfect for children who are not yet reading. Children can benefit from books that make connections between objects children see and interact with in their everyday lives. Summer Color! by Diana MurrayBest for Ages 4-8 yearsThis book is about two children who go on an adventure in their backyard and discover the colorful landscape of summer. We love when children are inspired to discover nature and read books that are relatable! Up in the Garden and Down in the Dirt by Kate MessnerBest for Ages 2 to 5 yearsThis book uncovers the hidden world under our feet! It is perfect for families starting a garden in their backyard! We love offering books that spark interest in new ideas and appreciation for what we don’t see! The Backyard Bug Book for Kids by Lauren DavidsonBest for Ages 3-5 yearsLearn facts about the bugs in your very own backyard! There are pictures and activities–perfect for your bug-lover. We love books that inspire observation and education about what can be found all around us! What are your favorite summer books? Comment below to share!

How can something be meaningful in a world where we have so much? With careful observation and conscious consideration, I believe anyone can have the opportunity to be impacted by meaningful gifts. My children and I were blessed by such an experience one winter. As a single mom who was also attending school, I was struggling to make ends meet. I remember the fear I felt as the seasons began to change and the holidays were approaching. After observing their lack of winter gear in snowy Utah, a woman in our neighborhood bought my children winter coats. Through her observation, she was able to give an impactful gift that not only made a difference to my children, but also to me. Her thoughtful gift made a life-long impression. While every gift may not have the same impact as my neighbor’s did, I believe that well thought-out gifts do have the potential to have a lasting impact. Thoughtful gifts can help to create treasured memories, build connections, or foster a child’s confidence. In spite of this, gift-giving for children can, at times, be challenging for both givers and receivers. We want to share some insights that others use as guidelines to help as you thoughtfully consider gifts for the loved ones in your life. Giving meaningful gifts Tangible and intangible gifts can both bring value to the recipient, be tailored to interests and needs, and make the recipient feel seen. Meaningful gifts can have a lasting impact for the giver, receiver, and even the parent of a child who receives such a gift . As you consider a gift for a child, @pattyrosemc suggested to “ask, how will this spark [the] baby’s imagination - if you can’t think of anything, buy something else.”We gathered insights on gift ideas that foster growth and development for children from our Instagram community. When asked, 79% of respondents said they prefer experiences over toys. Experiences can be as simple as the gift of time and memories together, such as a camping trip. Other experiences can be combined with tangible gifts like a quilt that is used for storytime, a notebook with a letter to the recipient, or a stuffed animal to remind of a zoo experience together. Some of the experience gift suggestions were: Zoo memberships Tickets to places like an aquarium or museum An art or science subscription box Nature observation items Child-sized kitchen tools and a set aside time to cook together A kite and a trip to the park A musical instrument and a music class The other 21% said they appreciate tangible items that foster growth and development. @nelsonninjas recommended that people “ask the parents! Nobody wants stuff they don’t need!” When it comes to toys or tangible items, melllellla said "I try to focus on minimalism and celebrate by giving one or two really meaningful, thoughtful, long-lasting items instead of a large number of poor quality gifts." These tangible items can bring a great opportunity for development or learning experiences for children. Some suggestions were: Wooden blocks Books Art related items (washable paints, dot markers, construction paper, stickers, etc) Age-appropriate puzzles A growth chart to track them as they get older Magnets (tiles, letters, numbers, etc) Balls Animal figures @sonnysmontessori Requesting gifts that align with the way you want to parent When our Instagram community was asked, 93% of respondents shared that their child had received a gift that didn’t align with the way they wanted to parent. It can be difficult as birthdays and holidays approach to know how to have a conversation about gifts with your loved ones who may get a gift for your child. It is natural for parents, grandparents, and family friends to want what is best for a child, and that conscious concern extends to gifts for the child. Despite their united intentions, loved ones sometimes don’t see eye-to-eye on what makes something the ‘best’ for a child. With these differing opinions, how do you communicate prioritizing a child’s development when special days or holidays are coming up? While I am always grateful for the thought behind gifts for my children and the investment in their celebration or holiday, I also don’t want people spending money on something that isn’t a good fit for our home. Have you ever felt this way? How to have the conversation with friends and familyWhen it comes to having a productive conversation while also respecting feelings, there are a couple different ways to approach it. Here's what our followers had to say about how they communicate with those close to them about gifts:@xamybradshaw approaches the conversation by saying: “as parents, we aren’t a fan of traditional plastic toys…we prefer__ because __”. Giving insight on your ‘why’ can be a helpful way to have the conversation. By giving the reason behind your gift preferences, you can help others understand more about your parenting methodology. Helping loved ones understand methodology or principles can help lay the groundwork for future experiences. @kascondra mentioned telling people ‘If you need inspiration...’ and then would send over a wishlist that she prepared. This can be helpful as it takes the pressure off the purchaser, and the receiver knows that items in the home will align with what is wanted in the home. @anyaruthmckenzie and @nylex1 mentioned times that they have received gifts that they wouldn’t have preferred but they’ve been able to make them special toys that come out when grandparents are over or for long car rides. This can give the toy a purpose while making it not accessible all the time. By making it a special toy saved for special times, you can also make a strong connection between the gift and the giver. Large item group gifts Another way to communicate about items that you feel will be beneficial for your child is to suggest a group gift. Sometimes desired items can come with a higher cost than people would be willing to spend individually. One suggestion is to invite your loved ones to get your child a group gift. Lian shared her insights on group gifts and how she has tackled them. She shared suggestions such as emailing everyone involved, sending a link of the desired present, sharing about the cost, and asking contributors to gift whatever amount they feel comfortable with. Afterwards she suggests sending pictures of the child opening and playing with the gift and with a “personalized video thank you from [the] child to them.” I have sent pictures or FaceTimed to share my child enjoying a gift. Especially when the giver lives long-distance, I have seen this bring a greater depth into the joy of gift-giving. Sprout giftsLian also mentioned a memorable gift was her son’s "learning tower -- he's now able to help with baking and cooking and he's gotten very good at chopping and mixing and mashing"@samanthajhendrian mentioned how they avoided grandparents ‘spoiling’ their little one for their first birthday, by setting up a group gift with everyone pitching in on a Nugget. The top 3 most giftable Sprout items suggestions were:   However you choose to communicate about presents with your loved ones, you can take the opportunity to teach gratitude to your child for people’s gifts. Reminding your child who gifted them a specific pair of pajamas or a book can help those items become special to your little one. When used, your child can mentally link the item to the gift-giver and make it more meaningful. Whether tangible or intangible, giving a gift to a child can show that you support and care for them. By thinking about what gift would make a great impact on that unique child, you can choose a meaningful gift that is tailored to their needs and can provide lasting benefits. Is there a way you’ve found success when communicating about gifts with loved ones? Or is there a gift that you’ve given or received that you feel fosters growth or development? Share below!

As a parent it can be hard and time consuming to find a new worthwhile book for your child. Some of the best children’s books can come from perusing your sister’s shelves or from asking your online mom group for suggestions. While you can find a few gems that way, you don’t always get a variety or very many. This is how we came with the idea to provide a large community-sourced book list. To do this, we asked our Instagram community for their most recommended children's books in hopes of learning what books parents and children truly enjoy and learn from. We got over 600 responses! Whether you’re looking for a baby book, a toddler book, a preschool book, or something for an older child, hopefully this list can provide new ideas and help as you create a love of books and learning together. We have categorized the books so that you can more easily find what you are looking for! To get all categorized recommendations, enter your email below and you will receive the full list. Here are some of the books and the value that they can provide to your child: Global Babies by The Global Fund for ChildrenBest for Ages 3 months to 3 yearsGlobal Babies shares how each child is unique and special, all around the world. Infants and toddlers tend to enjoy looking at other babies to observe expressions! The words in the book are simple so that you can add your own information about the country. By having REAL pictures of REAL babies around the world, your child can be introduced to different cultures, clothes from around the world, and global diversity. (Montessori-friendly) Here We Are by Oliver JeffersBest for Ages 1 to 7 yearsHere We Are is a great way to discuss caring for the Earth and the people in it. The book shares facts about the Earth and bodies while showing people in the world from all their varying styles, cultures, and lifestyles. As you continue to share these concepts of individuality and kindness early on, you could be surprised by how much they understand. Why Johnny Doesn't Flap by Clay Morton and Gail MortonBest for Ages 4 to 8 yearsWhy Johnny Doesn’t Flap gives a unique perspective from the eyes of a neurodivergent child that explains why his neurotypical friend doesn't avoid eye contact or flap their arms, but why he connects to him anyways. This book about autism for kids can be a great way to introduce your child to the autistic spectrum or a unique opportunity for young readers with autism to see themselves as the main character. The Rabbit Listened by Cori DoerrfeldBest for Ages 3 to 5 yearsThe Rabbit Listened can be a great way to open your child's eyes to ways to deal with hard feelings. It is an important skill to learn how to comfort people and through this book you can reinforce the importance of compassion as a skill. This is a good option for an introductory children’s book about feelings. The Day You Begin by Jacqueline WoodsenBest for Ages 5 to 8 yearsThe Day You Begin is a book that can be used as a tool to discuss starting a new school as well as diversity, differences and acceptance with your children! This book can be a great picture book about diversity as you continue conversations on race, language, abilities, personalities and more. Through reading this, you can highlight the benefits of everyone being different. Hands Can by Cheryl HudsonBest for Ages 2 to 5 yearsHands Can offers pictures of children as they use their hands to practice various gross motor skill mastery. Through rhyming and engaging imagery, your child is shown some of the simple and complex things they can mimic as you explore this book together. (Montessori-friendly) You're Here for a Reason by Nancy TillmanBest for Ages 4 to 8 yearsYou're Here for a Reason can introduce your child to the difficult concept of understanding hard feelings or depression. This can also be a good resource for adults as they read it! This heartfelt book can help remind your child of their importance and individuality. Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See? by Bill Martin, Jr. and Eric CarleBest for Ages 6 months to 5 yearsBrown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See? is a great way to introduce colors and animals to your child! In fact, this is one of the most recommended books for babies under 1 that they’ll keep enjoying and recognizing as they get older. By keeping the same pattern of words but changing the animals out there is a level of predictability for your little one, which can keep them from getting distracted. Let's Find Momo Outdoors by Andrew KnappBest for Ages 2 to 5 yearsLet's Find Momo Outdoors is a fun look and find book with real photos! Your child can look for the animals and objects on every page which allows you to discuss the purpose of various items with them. This can help them practice their looking skills and increase their vocabulary. (Montessori-friendly) Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskeyBest for Ages 3 to 7 yearsBlueberries for Sal is like a field trip to yesteryear. The book is set up with a parallel structure between a child and a baby bear. With black and white illustrations the book keeps the focus on the story. This can help as you find simple things that can increase the attention span for children. Shh! We Have a Plan by Chris HaughtonBest for Ages 2 to 5 yearsShh! We Have a Plan is a playful book that shows 4 friends trying to carry out their plan to catch a bird. Your child can act out the actions as you read the book to them and maybe even repeat some of the lines along with you! This book can be a great way to help encourage a love of reading. The Cool Bean by Jory John and Pete OswaldBest for Ages 5 to 9 yearsThe Cool Bean is a great children’s book about friendship and inclusion. While sharing what makes someone ‘cool’, it shifts the focus to small acts of kindness having a large impact. As they read this book it can reinforce many skills and ideas of being considerate and inclusive. There are so many books available to you that hopefully this can give you an idea of quality books for your children through personal recommendations. To see more book suggestions from the community, share your email below. Loading…